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How to set up a meditation space.

Something that may stop many people from starting a meditation practice is thinking that they don’t have a spot in their home that is just for meditation. While it is pretty cool to have this, you don’t have to. However, I already feel kinda silly saying that at all because I believe people can meditate any where at anytime if they so choose. My regular spot to meditate is on my bed or my bean bag chair. I sit on a pillow, one blanket on my lap, one blanket wrapped around my shoulders, one cushion under each knee and honey, that’s it. If you are more particular, if you thrive in a certain space set up, if you like to zazz it up, here are some tips and tricks to enhance your surroundings for your meditation practice. You don’t have to be fancy to get your meditation on. First, let me start by saying again, you do not have to have one designated area in your home for meditating. Maybe you are in a college dorm with a roommate, in which case, I would suggest meditating on your bed as a study break or even in a library. Some libraries offer isolated study rooms that are great for meditating. Just please please please don’t think that if you don’t have a fancy designated area for meditation that you can not have the most rewarding and fulfilling meditation practice, you absolutely can! All that is required is yourself and power of will. Now, if you do have a certain area in your home that you are ready to dedicate to meditation then consider yourself abundant! Not too many people have that luxury. Especially if you live with others or have children. For example, if the world of meditation had already revealed itself to me when i was living with my parents, I would sit in the closet (My sister and I shared a room). I would even sit in the woods to get as far away from others as possible. In this scenario for making a beautiful meditation space, lets pretend you have a whole room to yourself. First, the basics. What to sit on. Have you ever tried meditating by sitting flat on the ground? If so, you know that this is super uncomfortable. It’s not like it makes you a super impressive master meditator if you chose this, it is just making things harder on your body and mind. Even monks use a cushion or something to elevate the hips. So first order of business is to find a firm pillow to sit on. If you want a cushion just for meditating, those do exist! I say the simpler, the better. I is important to have your hips elevated to prevent the legs from going numb. If you have a yoga bolster or even an old couch cushion those could both work as well. Another element that I need for meditating is cushion under the knees. This could again be pillows. I have also used stuffed animals (oh stuffies, always offering support in all of the ways), and rolled up blankets. This could be an entire blanket rolled up under each knee or edges of the blanket that you are already using bunched up under each knee. If you are crafty or know some one who is, I have also seen little square cushions that serve this purpose as well. No pillows available to you? A folded up blanket or comforter will work just fine. Blankets, covers, shawls. Maybe you have this lovely shawl or tapestry that you got on a vacation that you would like to be your special meditation shawl. By all means, do it! I have a burrito blanket that I like to wrap around my shoulders during meditation that makes me feel like a secure little wrapped up burrito, protected by the tortilla. Unless you are wearing warm clothes, a blanket or two during meditation is incredibly helpful for feeling secure and giving a sense of protection. It is said that the space and items we use for a regular meditation practice hold energy. Have you ever gone to a meditation class at a yoga studio or a meditation hall? If so, you know what I’m talking about. So keeping your cushions and blankets in one spot, treating them with respect (folding that blanket and setting it on the cushion after each use or cleaning and cleansing with sage every now and again) will keep your meditation space clean and clear. Meditation items to enhance sensory awareness. This is the fun part! If your most preferred style of meditation involves some kind of sensory awareness, then add to your space some nifty and enjoyable elements. You can place a candle in front of you. Fire can be a very cleansing element and can also be used for candle gazing meditations. You can light an incense, give a spritz of some natural room spray or put some essential oils in a diffuser. You can have items that create sound; a bell, sound bowl, some meditation music from your phone. You can have other dim lights like a salt lamp or a red light. Maybe something you can touch before or after your meditation such as tarot cards or crystals. Whatever is going to be most inviting and comfortable for your meditation time. Just make sure you keep it all nice and organized, everything having it’s own place so you can easily return to it next time. Alter. Alters and what you put on them are totally optional and specific to you. This could be a little piece of would you keep on the floor that you can set items on, a desk, a shelf etc. An alter is typically a sacred space or structure used for spiritual or religious purposes.. so you don’t have to call it an alter if you don’t want to. It can simply be a spot where you keep all of

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What stops us from meditating?

You ever make a goal and it just stays in your mind for a while before you actually do it? Then you do it once but it stays in your mind again for another month or so? I have. Especially with exercising. One day I will be full of enthusiasm and go hard on the working out paint! The next day I will be so sore that of course, I have to rest now. The next day, something will get in the way, so on and so forth. All of a sudden the whole week has passed and I realized I only worked out once. This happens with any goal, not excluding meditation. We wake up to our alarm in the morning, tell ourselves “five more minutes” or “I can meditate laying down” next thing you know, you wake up and you have even less time than you wanted to get ready for work. Luckily, tomorrow always holds a second chance, right? Well really, you still have the rest of the day to get your meditation and work out in. So what is in the way? Is it because we would rather do it in the morning but we missed our goal to do so? Okay, that’s fair enough. What if the same thing happens tomorrow? Then you will keep pushing it to the next day and the next day and the next day because we want our routine to be perfect. I am here to tell you that it does not have to be. When you are starting a new habit or practice (especially with meditation) I encourage you to fit it in at any time of the day that you can. This way you can still be practicing meditation anyway. Yes, meditation is experienced differently at different times of the day and it is ideal to get it done in the morning. Not only because it is beneficial to start the day off with a clear mind, but just to get it out of the way and check it off the list of things to do today. However, it is better to do it at any time than to not do it at all. you want to ease your dedicated meditation practice into your life, not force it. So it looks like perfectionism is what is holding us back from meditating. I want to meditate at EXACTLY 6:30 am EVERYDAY for 30 minutes on the DOT. When you finally find yourself on your cushion, wrapped in your blanket, sitting in quiet and watching yourself completely, you will learn real fast just how imperfect every thing is. It would be so nice and perfect to shut those loud annoying thoughts up while we try to focus on the breath. It would be just so perfect if we could gaze only at the candle flame and focus only there without wavering once. That lots and lots of time and practice to get that good at focus and in meditation practices, that’s usually not exactly what we want to get out of it any way. We want to feel better. More calm, more present, better able to handle things. Most of all, our emotions. Heck, that is the main thing that holds us back from beginning and continuing our practice. Emotions that turn into thoughts, that turn into emotions, that turn into thoughts and that cycle that goes on and on.. until one day. We have this burning desire to achieve it. To let it become a part of us. To make it happen. That is the beauty of meditation. You sit there, just sit there and realize how hard it is to just sit there! We can lounge on the couch all day but God forbid we sit straight up, cross legged, eyes closed, be still and observe. It’s pretty hilarious if you can look at it that way. So then, our brain tells us “sitting there is so easy, you don’t actually have to do it. You’ll accomplish more if you do tasks or do something hard.” Or the voice that comes in the morning “you can do it later.” Later comes and all the other tasks you put off have now become more important but now you’re stressed while you’re trying to get them done on a crunch. I hate to remind you in the moment but.. if you had meditated in the morning.. the work and tasks would feel a lot less stressful. Maybe that is when the moment comes that you make that change. Are you seeing what it all comes down to that holds you back from meditating? You. It’s you my friend. That’s okay. That’s the beauty of meditation. At first it is so hard because you are fighting hard against yourself and the resistance you created. (If you are a human, you struggle with resistance.) Then after you get through consistent effort of getting into your meditative spot every day, one day, you will have a pleasant moment during one of your meditation practices. That pleasant moment will be what makes you look forward to sitting on that cushion. Next thing you know, you will look back and realize, whoa, I’ve been meditating every day for a year and a half now?…. nice. Please enjoy this 20 minute meditation for the next time you make the good decision to meditate instead of scroll! I’m rooting for you and your peace!

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